Ellen Cross

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Monday, April 14, 2014

Autism Awareness Bloghop - April 15th

As you can see from the banner above, April 2nd is Autism Awareness Day, and this year heralds it's seventh anniversary.

This year, as she has done so for the past three,  RJ Scott is hosting her April Autism Blog Hop, and I am so happy to have been included.

As with all participants,  I have an autism fact to share with you:

"Some people live with autism for their entire lives without ever getting a formal diagnosis"

I have to thank RJ for giving me this fact, as it is so close to the heart. My now fourteen year old has only recently been diagnosed with high functioning autism, after an EIGHT year battle to get him help. He had been branded as lazy, uncooperative, and just generally uninterested in even trying at school, by his teachers, who would simply report that he wasn't trying hard enough and was unwilling to learn, on his report cards.

 It wasn't until he followed other boys out of school and truanted, that the school started to take notice, and finally approved the testing I had been begging for, and listened to the counsellor's cries for help.

 Even with the results, the battle continues as he looks like a regular kid, just with a few strange quirks and zero social skills.  Add in his younger brother who has ADHD, and our life with two in the spectrum is never dull, but I wouldn't' change it for the world. They are my boys, and as the old saying goes "To  know them, is to love them", and the more awareness we can get out about those who fall under the Autistic spectrum, the more people will realise just how special they really are!

I would like to give away an eBook copy of my last book, Paws, Claws, and their Triple-F, which also highlights differences and acceptance. To win, simply comment and leave your email address. I will randomly pick a name on the 20th of this month. Perhaps you would like to share  your own story with autism, share a fact you have learnt during the hop? I would love to hear from you!
  Farron had been a bad boy...a playboy, who blamed his lack of connection to another, on Fate.  But Fate has a twisted sense of humour and a special place for those who damn her, as her bitch, and she had a spot all marked out with Farron’s name on it. Tasked with fixing Fate’s screw-ups and helping those who have missed their moment to connect with their soul-mate, the pain of knowing he will never have that for himself is almost more than he can bear. But he does so, with a smile for each couple he unites. That is until he meets an untouched little man who makes him want to curse fate all over again, Ben. No matter how much he wishes it wasn’t so, Ben isn’t for him, though. He’s destined for another, Mason.
    Mason fled Tasmania like the devil was on his heels, and it was. Tasmanian devil shifters, that is. As the only submissive devil shifter born, he is driven away, smuggling himself in the boot of a car aboard a ferry to the mainland, to escape the constant physical abuse at the hands of other male devils, over territorial rights. Alone and destitute, his life hits rock bottom as each day his life seeps away a little more. When a gorgeous dingo shifter shows up claiming to be his Fairy Father with promises of bringing him to his mate, Mason could have cried. Not in joy, but in grief. It seems fate has screwed up yet again...as Mason’s time has just run out.


  1. Thank you for the insights into the Autism spectrum. I hope your sons find happiness now that they are getting the help they need.

  2. I'm so pleased you finally got a diagnosis for your son, that is the hard part trying to get help when you know there is a problem. This Blog Hop has made me so aware of Autism it's a great idea to highligh the subject.


  3. I've loved reading all these posts on the blog hop. I have learned so much from reading them.
    I hope your son now gets the extra help he needs... Thank you for sharing your story with us.
    geetracy1170 (at) gmail (dot) com

  4. I con't imagine how frustrating it was for you to fight with the schools for so long to get help for your son. I have friends that have autistic children, and it seems to be so much better the sooner the child's autism is diagnosed. Thank you for sharing your story with us.


  5. I know how frustrating it can be to fight with a school to get help. It's time consuming, frustrating and surely no easy feat. It's wonderful that after such a long battle your son is finally getting the help he needs. I don't have any stories dealing with autism but I have a cousin who was born deaf and a sister who has a learning disorder so I know what i means to have to be patient and helping when they need it. Thanks for sharing.

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  6. Sorry for taking so long to get this one done, but a book deadline demanded all my attention.
    Congratulations to Jen CW. You have won my copy of Paws, Claws, and their Triple-F!
    Check your email, as it is on it's way.